33

33 years of life, say what!!!!

I still feel like I am 25! For some, 30s are something to dread. I hear it all the time. “Oh my gosh we’re getting old” *(in my whiny voice). But for me, 30s is not old. Far from it. I got family right now pushing 102 with ease! I’m just getting started! 30s is when life begins to make sense. Confidence is up, routines are locked in and goals are set. My social circle is strong and my love life gets better as I age. I feel like I am at a perfect age right now. I’m feeling younger than ever and have done more in my 33 years than some people will get to do in a lifetime.

The number 33 resonates with the energies of blessings, inspiration, honesty and discipline. Anything is possible at 33! This year I’m coming for all the serves me. I’m here for the growth, and the challenges. This will be a magical year…I’m claiming it!

Things I’ve learned in my 33yrs of life: 

 1- you’re only as old as you feel 

Not gonna lie, I feel like I’m getting (and looking) younger every year. I attribute that to my love for all things fitness and wellness. I’m consistent when it comes to taking care of my body with movement and nutritious foods. I keep my mind clear of negativity and am constantly looking on the brighter side of things. You’d be surprised how having a positive mindset will keep you feeling fresh and vibrant. 

2- when you love yourself, you attract genuine love from others 

This always seemed so obvious but seeing it with other people made it clearer. You can’t expect to be loved the right way if you’re not loving yourself. Positive self-talk, taking care of my body and mind, and giving myself the credit I deserve are some of the ways that I attract love to myself.

3- you don’t stop playing because you get old, you get old because you stop playing 

As we age, we are stripped of our child-like creativity and forced to “grow up.” The transition from curious children to structured adults is too intense for me. Being an adult should be fun!! We should be catering to our inner children at any chance that we can. My inner child is an adventurous spirit who likes to go outside and play in nature. I take her hiking and swimming and whenever I see a climbable tree, I encourage her to scale its trunk and relax in its branches. My inner child likes to dance so I make sure to take her to ballet class weekly or to concerts to release energy on the dance floor. Our bodies and minds are meant to move and explore throughout our lifetime, not just as children. Keeping it moving = keeping young and healthy! 

4- your skincare routine should begin with your diet 

You can have all the high-end products on the shelf but if your diet is trash, your skin is going to be trash too.  

5- living single in my 20s was the best decision  

Single Zeena stayed unattached so that Zeena in a Relationship could thrive! I have learned so much about love and relationships by NOT being in one. I watched everyone around me navigate their relationships, go through ups and downs while I enjoyed pockets of love sprinkled around the world without commitment. Now at 33, I’ve learned enough and know exactly what I want from a partner and how to get it. 

6- kids are cute but not for me 

I’m the Rich Auntie. That’s it. 

7-humans are not that special, there is more to life than our human experience  

The human experience is cool and all, but we’re not the only ones here. Also, after I shed this meat suit, my spirit will move on to another journey and none of this will matter. We are such a tiny piece of an immense picture and keeping that in mind prevents me from stressing what I cannot change or overthinking things that do not matter. 

8- death is nothing to fear 

All good things come to an end including life. The more I live in the moment, the less fear I feel about dying.  

9- depending on your perspective, this world is either cruel or amazing 

I go back and forth with this one. Some days I feel like this world is nuts and everyone is doomed, and shit will come crashing down. There is so much evil and greed occurring that being an insightful human can be exhausting. Then other days I can recognize all the positive things happening in the world and it’s not so bad. 

10- I do not believe we are in this life to fulfill some purpose

I truly think life is just meant to be lived how we see fit. I’m not out here looking for my purpose but simply just enjoying what life throws at me.